Guest Blog Post: Emotional Seduction

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By MaryAnne Wanjiku
Every human being has a weakness that uncounsciously renders them vulnerable. Its a charm that awakenes that dead desire in you

When you have no knowledge of the paranormal you easily become a victim  of emotional seduction and still call it Love. The  art  of    emotional  seduction  requires  the  hunter  to sing their songs of siren to charm their catch in all possible way without raising any suspicion or losing them . The first stages of a relationship is always the sweet and the heart all together.This is because the charisma and efforts to prove the enigmtic aura in ourselves is both exciting and is what keeps our prey intense and glued to our songs.This is what emotional seduction is; All people need to learn is the right strings to pull to keep the tune intense,peculiar and worth the time. Women are emotional, self conscious,devoted to pleasure, spiritual and patient.  Aside from this two bit characters they have so many values that make them easy to manipulate and also the best coquettes. When a man and a woman are in a relationship they both work to make it work.  A  common fear between them isnt to lose each other but to see each other with someone else.The trouble and mind games they play to keep their men is a show of boldness and how much fear they have yet still most justify their paranormal behaviour with Love.A  woman would feign sickness to get attention from the people around her and mostly from the one they love. Her constant nagging and yelling are also her charm to keep her ploy interesting this is because she always you that today some guy approached her but turned him down?or that she is dying with cramps or someone just pissed her off? what about her outings or activities she is about to take?All this is to make you heroic ,she is trying to pamper your ego to show you how you matter and how dependent she is on your opinion.How she wants to make you smile knowing that you remain her ideal  lover.  A  woman knows what kinds of words lure you and what kind of actions keep you wrapped in in her little fingers. She knows what kind of bread cramps to drop and what kind not to bring on the table.She will never tell you someone better than you – inclusive of all angles of life, approached her or offered to take her out on date, Most would tell you about someone beneath you ,someone who had one faulty character   even if everything else in them was her type.This would put a smile in a man knowing how ‘loyal’  her woman is.Better still it could be her trying to make you to step up,”babe imagine some CEO just asked me out,but i said no coz that would be betraying us?” clearly she is trying to tell you,’you dont ask me out and yet rich jondo’s just cant seem to keep their money away from me. Moodswings is a therapeutic emotional seduction.A moody lady makes you feel  pressured. She is not talking or probably is crying and she is in a dark corner probably doesnt want to be with you. Most men dont see this coming and so they try to play the father role to make the woman light up a little. It could be taking her out,telling her the words she loves to hear,calling her,texting or putting her as your profile.This is an art designed to keep the knows when to come back.She will throw fits at you,probably annoy you with her words and later in the day show up in your office to fluff you and to puddle your ego by making a delicious meal and proably with a bottle of Penfolds Grange.Her unpredictale behaviour makes her chic and a goddess.For a woman it puts her in control. Her constant briefing of what is happening around her is an old fashioned emotional seduction that is still utterly played today.why would a woman tell you that today some guy approached her but turned him down?or that she is dying with cramps or someone just pissed her off? what about her outings or activities she is about to take?All this is to make you heroic ,she is trying to pamper your ego to show you how you matter and how dependent she is on your opinion.How she wants to make you smile knowing that you remain her ideal  lover.  A  woman knows what kinds of words lure you and what kind of actions keep you wrapped in in her little fingers. She knows what kind of bread cramps to drop and what kind not to bring on the table.She will never tell you someone better than you – inclusive of all angles of life, approached her or offered to take her out on date, Most would tell you about someone beneath you ,someone who had one faulty character   even if everything else in them was her type.This would put a smile in a man knowing how ‘loyal’  her woman is.Better still it could be her trying to make you to step up,”babe imagine some CEO just asked me out,but i said no coz that would be betraying us?” clearly she is trying to tell you,’you dont ask me out and yet rich jondo’s just cant seem to keep their money away from me. Moodswings is a therapeutic emotional seduction.A moody lady makes you feel  pressured. She is not talking or probably is crying and she is in a dark corner probably doesnt want to be with you. Most men dont see this coming and so they try to play the father role to make the woman light up a little. It could be taking her out,telling her the words she loves to hear,calling her,texting or putting her as your profile.This is an art designed to keep the knows when to come back.She will throw fits at you,probably annoy you with her words and later in the day show up in your office to fluff you and to puddle your ego by making a delicious meal and proably with a bottle of Penfolds Grange.Her unpredictale behaviour makes her chic and a goddess.For a woman it puts her in control. Her constant briefing of what is happening around her is an old fashioned emotional seduction that is still utterly played today.why would a woman tell man in check.To remind the woman that she is his priority and that she remains in his mind constantly.A  man in love would do everything to make sure that his woman smiles and stops being moody even though her moods could be repulsive lets face  it the greater part of a mans thought would be the woman,what made her upset?why was my wife so moody this morning,did i do something wrong? Should i call her or what should i do?i bet she will like this roses…either way the woman has accomplished her goal to keep herself in your thoughts. Most women get so moody to have a father figure beside them and maybe blame it on biological  facts like cramps,pregnacies etc…best play for a man is to be her daddy and hug her or do something special. dont try to wrap your brains so much around it. Understand her power of persuasion with emotions..
Men understand that pride and prcedent canot overshadow reason so most are conniving emotional seducers.They know when to use words and when to act.  This is mostly seen when they are trying to pursue and when they want to brand themselves in the hearts of their woman. When a man tells you of his minor problems.In as much as it could be genuine,we all know men as beings who would rather keep problems to themselves to avoid stressing their woman and also to still be seen as heroes after its been done. He would do this to get the attention of the woman even when the problem isnt a huge deal ,he knows how empathetic the woman will be and would sacrifice so much to ensure he is okay. Some men take advantage of this as an art of emotional seduction because women are emotional beings and most women fall victims of this without knowing .Its good to share fatalities and problems but real men dont stress their women with emotional problems especially when they can solve them. Moodswings for men is an epitom of emotional seduction.It accomplishes that they linger in the mind of the woman .  When a man stops speaking to a woman a woman would immediately start feeling repudiated and will get woried. She will in turn strive to appear supernatural and magical by doing everything right and showing her support to the man. She will try to find what is bothering the man and in her acts of care she puts all her energy,streangth and mind to this one person..This pacifies her loyalty to as her god.She will be dependant on you and will trust you even more. Holding a woman on a waist from behind.  This is an emotional seduction especially when she is annoyed or moody.It also a tact used by many men when they are trying to avoid an argument or fight or giving explanations. Its hard to understand how a simple kiss on the cheek and holding from behind melts everything into place.It not only romantic but it makes a woman feel sexxy,’atleast i got a small waist he can hold’,it makes a woman feel needed and cherished.This emotional game works all the time. Professing publicly to friends that you are his lady. Though it may not entirely be true,most women prefer the public announcement rather than the slow let actions speak loud.Even if a man was taking you for a spin but still introduces you to his friends,it makes a woman have some sense of security and makes her trust and even be loyal.

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Emotional seduction is a good and a bad things sometimes its what can keep the relationship but i believe in confidence .wear your confidence in that relationship like an armor and be you because once someone finds that you manipulated them to stay,they will hate you and leave,Be smart if you have to seduce emotionally. the man. Gifting is a common is an art of emotional  seduction. When yoou constantly gift someone they always feel indebted to you and the thought of failing to receive those gifts from you is terrifying especially when they think someone else will get those gifts.Gifts are constant reminder about a person.Could be a simple thing but its a whole memory lane,So wheather a woman loves you or not,gifting ensures she remembers you even for a split second its enough .For men that use this charm know what gifts to give and how to give them…sometimes its how the gift is given that makes you memorable. Engaging a woman in something that builds her. This is an art of emotional persuation that automatically makes a woman surrender her alligience to you.  Aside from only seeing her ability  in the kitchen and bedroom,a man who explores a woman brilliant mind in terms of business or spiritual things wins her.A  woman loves to feel special and not just with cuddling,she loves to feel in control so by engaging her in thoughts that challenge her make her see you as her god.She will be dependant on you and will trust you even more. Holding a woman on a waist from behind.  This is an emotional seduction especially when she is annoyed or moody.It also a tact used by many men when they are trying to avoid an argument or fight or giving explanations. Its hard to understand how a simple kiss on the cheek and holding from behind melts everything into place.It not only romantic but it makes a woman feel sexxy,’atleast i got a small waist he can hold’,it makes a woman feel needed and cherished.This emotional game works all the time. Professing publicly to friends that you are his lady. Though it may not entirely be true,most women prefer the public announcement rather than the slow let actions speak loud.Even if a man was taking you for a spin but still introduces you to his friends,it makes a woman have some sense of security and makes her trust and even be loyal. Emotional seduction is a good and a bad things sometimes its what can keep the relationship but i believe in confidence .wear your confidence in that relationship like an armor and be you because once someone finds that you manipulated them to stay,they will hate you and leave,Be smart if you have to seduce emotionally.

Quick Bio:
*MaryAnne Wanjiku is a writer for UltraSureGroup company –Click link here
*She takes does graphics design at Moi University
*For articles you can connect with her on Facebook:MaryAnne Wanjiku
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